Wednesday, June 27, 2007

10 Days In India...A Lifetime of Memories

HELLO FROM JODHPUR, India!!!!! So much has happened since I last wrote. Unfortunately, I don't have enough time to write all about the amazing things that have happened lately. (It took me a while to find an internet cafe tonight, and they're closing in a few minutes). So, here's the quick update:

Since Jaipur (when I last wrote in), I've been to Pushkar (me at the top of a mountain overlooking the holy lake and city of Pushkar, and also the people preparing their white sheets before going down to the holy lake), then to Udaipur (the incredible sunset photo below, and also the gorgeous Lake Palace in the middle of Udaipur's lake), then to Ranakpur, and now Jodhpur (the blue city!)

Each day has been better than the last. That pretty much sums up my India experience so far. I've met incredible people, learned so much - about India, its people, history, culture, etc...and also about myself. I've had ample alone time and I've made great friends along the way.
OK - I promise to write more VERY SOON - but I had to check in and send my love and let you know that I'm doing great and having the best time ever. Everyone should go to India in his/her life.
Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!!!









































Friday, June 22, 2007

Rajs, Pink Cities, and Snake Charmers

HELLO FROM JAIPUR, India!!! Well, I have successfully completed the "golden triangle" of India: Delhi, Agra, Jaipur. All 3 have been absolutely amazing. Jaipur is the capital city of Rajasthan, and has about 4 million people here. The center of the city is the old town - surrounded by a wall - and all the buildings in the old city are painted a red sandstone/pink color. Entering the old city feels like stepping back in time 100 years (similar to Taj Ganj, but on a much bigger and busier scale). There are bazaars lining the main streets, selling everything and anything you can imagine, and in between the main bazaars are these amazing side streets with so much character, charm, color - it feels like a city lost in time. Anyway, after a long and hot drive from Agra, we reached Jaipur by the evening. I went off on my own and walked around the old city during sunset (see the photos!) and had a delicious big ol' Indian thali (big plate of food with lots of different types of Indian food in small portions) Yesterday morning was a big day of sightseeing around the city: Albert Hall (the same Albert as in Royal Albert Hall in London, I believe), City Palace, Ahmer Fort (see picture below), royal crematorium. Lots to see & do in this city. Rajasthan literally means "land of the kings", so each city is named after the Raj that founded it. Jai Singh II founded "Jai-pur", and every other city in Rajasthan is named after its founding Maharaja. Interesting stuff. Lots and lots of history here - Jaipur is more than 500 years old!


Things I've noticed about India: Until now, Laur has been my India guide and motivator. I can finally see with my own eyes what she had been obsessing about for so long. :-) India is basically overflowing with culture, history, religion, and people. Sadly, a huge percentage of India's population is so deeply entrenched in extreme poverty, the situation seems almost impossible to amend. In every city I've been in, poor people line the streets, with nothing to sleep on except the cement block below their head. The Indian government apparently has social networks in place to support the B.P.L. (below the poverty line), e.g. providing 5 rupees per day for lunch/dinner, but it seems that the Indian government is so corrupt that any real attempt at poverty reduction is thrown into diverted into the pockets of politicians. Such a shame. I try to talk to Indian people whenever I can about this problem: auto rickshaw drivers, my guide, people I meet walking around. It seems like the problem is too big to fix now; I guess the only silver lining is that with India now stepping up as a major world economic player, the rest of the world will have to take notice work with India to help the situation. Also, as more Indian people are moving up the social ranks through India's service and IT sectors, families are getting smaller (ie, they are having 1 or 2 children instead of 5 or 6 to support their farms). This will possibly assuage the problem down the road. But for now, Indian poverty is a huge crisis.
Right - enough social action talk for now...I'm sure I'll be learning all about this in September. I'm heading to Pushkar today, which is supposed to be a beautiful and small religious city on a lake. There will be lots more photos to come!!!

Uncle H - so great to hear from you! Thanks for all of the updates on life in Bethesda. Send my love to Lauren & Justin and Aunt Eve. Glad you're embracing Asia more and more into your life!!! :-)

Natasha - I can't make it on the 12th to the concert - I'll already be in Holland by then. If Amy Winehouse/Paolo Nutini come to Amsterdam, do you want to meet me there?? haha
La - When are you back in New York? I can't believe Guat is almost over. Remember walking to the movies in Brooklyn from Park Slope (when we saw The Departed) and you were so nervous about applying to the program!!!!!!! Crazy!!
Greg - I hope the days fly by like you want them to. This last picture is for you. I hope you like it. The guy wanted me to sit next to the snakes for a photo-op, but I was too scared. I hate snakes!!!
MISS YOU ALL - LOTS OF LOVE ALWAYS!!!!!!!

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

World Wonder? Check.

HELLO FROM AGRA, India!!! Today was the start of my 2-week road trip through Rajasthan; I hired a car and driver/guide from my guest house in Delhi - his name is Shankar, and he's such a nice guy...a genuinely good tour guide. Today, our first stop was Agra. I was completely blown away by the Taj Mahal (see left). It is as impressive as you can imagine; purely spectacular, and probably one of the most amazing things I've ever seen - it definitely rivals Angkor Wat (they're both among the 7 wonders of the world) - did you know that there is a new poll, currently underway, to determine the "new" 7 wonders of the world. Apparently the Statue of Liberty is also in the running, but I think the Taj is a bit more impressive (maybe because I'm from New York and I'm used to seeing it every day from the F train).

After the Taj I walked around Taj Ganj, the neighborhood just outside of the Taj Mahal. It felt like stepping back 100 years in time; I've attached some photos of the street life there. So old, so beautiful, it felt like another world. The photos of the bicycle riders and kids playing ball are from Taj Ganj.

Quick recap - yesterday my friend Josh and I did lots of sightseeing around Delhi: Red Fort, Jain Temple, Jama Masjid (2nd time for me), India Gate, National Museum, and the Bahai Temple. Check out the photo of the Bahai Temple - it's a huge lotus flower! Very unique and spectacular, and the Bahai religion embraces all religions, so I felt particularly welcome in that one. :-) See the photo at the bottom!!!

Indian food - Let me state for the record that I am definitely returning to the USA with the biggest Buddha belly I will have had in my entire life. :-) Indian food is absolutely amazing, and it's hard not to have huge delicious meals at every sitting. In fact, each meal that I've had in India has pretty much been the best meal of my life. And I haven't fallen ill yet!!! (knock on wood). :-) Greg, I hope that answers your question!!! La - thanks for the recommendation, but my driver brought me to another restaurant instead. :-( Great food there, too!

That's about all for now - tomorrow I head to Jaipur which is supposed to be an old city painted pink. It should be amazing. I miss everyone soooo much, but India is definitely an incredible time to be had, and it's only just begun!!!

Be in touch!!!

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Monday, June 18, 2007

We're Not In Kansas Anymore, Toto

HELLO FROM DELHI, India!!!!!!!! Well, part 2 of this trip has officially started...in a big way. India is COMPLETELY different from anything I experienced in SE Asia. Everything is much more intense, more crowded, more stimulating in every way than I have ever experienced before. That being said, I had heard all of that before I arrived in India, and it kinda bothered me when people said that, because I wanted to say to them: "What the heck do you mean by that??!!" So, now that I have the forum to delve as far as I want to go, here we go:

I arrived last night in Delhi - the flight from Bangkok to Delhi was great, no complaints. I had pre-arranged with my guesthouse to pick me up from the airport, so I didn't have to worry about haggling a price with the plethora of taxi drivers waiting to pick up the tourists. I got to the guesthouse, which is in the Paharganj area of Delhi - pretty much the backpacker world of Delhi. The area is kinda dirty and crowded and grungy - but it's great. :-) It's such an experience to walk around these streets - people everywhere, cows pushing through the crowds, autos, motorbikes, and rikshaws honking through the streets, and of course people coming up to you every 2 minutes asking you to buy something, or "where are you from", with the eventual aim of trying to bring you to their tourist shop so you can buy an overpriced trip to somewhere. The streets are dirty, but full of colors, smells, sounds. It rained here last night and today, so the weather was actually a lot cooler than I thought it would be. Not too hot at all.

I woke up at around 8am today, walked down the street for some breakfast, and then decided to brave Delhi on my own. I met a really nice Indian guy on the plane, who gave me lots of recommendations for places to go in India, and also how to navigate around Delhi, so I first walked to Connaught Place (where I was stopped by a guy who led me to a tourist office, then I turned around and walked back - sometimes it's fun just to see how far people will go to try and scam you....hahaha....I won't give in!!!!). Since today is Monday, most things are closed in this city, so I guess it was a good introduction to India as it wasn't completely overcrowded today. From Connaught Place I took the Metro to Old Delhi, where I saw the Red Fort (from outside the gates, since it's closed today), and then I walked over to Jami Masad, a huge Muslim Mosque in Old Delhi. The mosque is a huge courtyard area with 3 entrance gates on the north, south & east walls; the western side is the prayer-facing wall, so there are two sets of 5 arches (representing the 5 pillars of Islam and the 5 times of prayer per day) enclosing a pulpit-like platform in between. On top of the arches are 3 huge dome-shaped structures, the same shape of a bishop piece in chess, and similar to what the Taj Mahal looks like (although I have yet to see that). He showed me around there for a little while and then we arranged for him to walk me through the narrow streets of Old Delhi for an hour. What an eye-opening experience. Most of Old Delhi is over 500 years old; the streets are so narrow, each of the buildings has a gorgeous limestone archway with intricate designs all around. The streets are filled with people milling about; whenever a cart or bike drives through, everyone has to jump up on the curb to allow it to pass through. It was an amazing tour - we stopped to watch a guy mold together a gold medallion the old-fashioned way - heating up pieces of gold, then pouring it into a mold casting to set in place. very cool.

After the Old Delhi tour, I headed back to Connaught Place for my first great Indian meal, recommended by the guy from the flight, and then I headed back to the guesthouse to sleep. I was so completely exhausted from the whole experience - so many people everywhere, so much to look at, things to avoid in the streets, people shouting at you and asking you to buy this and that...it was all a bit overwhelming. I definitely needed a nap. :-) After I woke up I went back out around Paharganj and ran into another American guy from California named Josh (another Jewish guy, whoo hoo! haha) and we walked around Paharganj for a while and got a yummy dinner. He and I are going to see the Red Fort tomorrow, which should be good. It was nice to chat to another westerner after being on my own all day - that being said, I am ready for more alone time in India. Where else in the world is more appropriate than India to enjoy alone time????

The difference between backpackers in India and SE Asia - Ok, so here's the deal. Whereas on the Koh Sahn Road, the "hippies" are more wanna-be hippies who are actually rich university-graduates or gap-year kids traveling on their parents' wallet, travelers in India are the real thing. Real hippies. Real dreadlocks. Real body odor. SE Asia is like the Disneyland of backpacking compared to India. Don't worry mom & dad, I'm not really into the whole dreadlock ting. :-) (I think the beard has been enough of a stress factor for my parents already!!)

And that brings me to now - India, Day 1: over. After dinner tonight, I looked up and saw Venus brightly lit and almost engulfed by the mouth of the crescent moon right next to it, appearing almost identical to the Turkish flag. Then I looked down and saw a completely foreign scene on the streets of India. That was when I realized I am not in Kansas anymore (or Thailand, or New York, or anywhere else that has felt slightly familiar or comfortable). This is India.

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, June 17, 2007

Say Hello Wave Goodbye

Ok, so this is it: my final blog entry from Southeast Asia. I can't believe how fast these 10 weeks have gone. What an incredible time it's been. It seems like yesterday when I was saying goodbye to everyone in New York (at our goodbye party after that Indian meal from the Consulate!!!), DC - (Kim, Natasha, Ray, Heather, Holly, Claire!!!), and of course, my family and friends in Newburgh...plus, the last people I saw in New York - Greg and Amy. Part 2 is upon me now: India & Nepal. But before we say goodbye to SE Asia, I wanted to reminisce on the past 10 weeks, looking back at the memories with my multiple travel companions and now great friends: Aly, Brad, Zack, Hung & Dinh (Easy Riders!!), Nicole & Regi, Matt, and Tom & Leona, (among many others!). It's nearly impossible to avoid meeting amazing people in SE Asia, and I am fortunate now to have so many new friendships that will last a lifetime. Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Laos - I recommend to ALL OF YOU that you must do this trip sometime in the near future. It's too easy to travel here. In fact, it's much easier than traveling around the States...honestly. In 10 weeks, I had no problems getting anywhere (unless of course you count the rainstorm-eroded rode from The Loop). The people in SE Asia are the friendliest and warmest people I've ever encountered, and I will remember each day of this trip for the rest of my life (thanks to this blog!!!!) :-)

I wouldn't be sitting in Bangkok today if it weren't for my friend Natasha Ward in DC - about 3 years ago, she and I sat at the waterfront of Georgetown, DC, and she basically retold her entire Southeast Asian experience to me, thus solidifying my desire to be a backpacker. Also - Kim!!! I would have never known all things Thai if it weren't for you and your last-minute revolutionary wisdom. Thank you so much. :-) Rob G. - again, pure inspiration based on your travels here. I hope this blog has kept you entertained and has allowed you to relive your experiences!


And that brings me to India: I have no idea what is going to happen over the next couple of months, but then again, I had no idea what these past 10 weeks were going bring. Therefore, I enter India with an open heart and an open mind, and I hope I learn all there is to learn from what will be a fascinating place.














In chronological order, top to bottom:
Danny & Aly P
Danny & Brad McCammack
Danny & Zack
Easy Riders Hung & Dinh
Zack climbing a rope at the waterfalls of Kuang Xi (Luang Prabang, Laos) after our monstrous 32 km bicycle trip
Danny, Nicole, & Regi
Danny & Matt Dallow (The Loop!)
Danny, Tom & Leona

I miss you and love you all SO much!!! Please continue to follow me as I go through India & Nepal, and stay in touch!!!

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"LET'S GET READY TO RUMBLE!!!!!! Muay Thai-Style!!!!!!!!

HELLO FROM BANGKOK, Thailand!!!!! So today is my last day in Southeast Asia; but before I wax sentimental on the past 10 weeks, let's recap the good times I've had in this backpacker's travel hub! I arrived on Friday afternoon and met up with my British friends Leona and Tom whom I'd met in Luang Prabang. They were so kind to reserve a room for me in their hotel on Rambuttri street, which is one street down from the Koh Sahn Road (ALY - this hotel is right next door to our Vieng Thai hotel!!!! hahaha). I arrived in the late afternoon without a problem and we headed right out to enjoy the hustle & bustle of Bangkok's Banglamphu backpacker area, hitting up the Koh Sahn Road for some quality people watching. It is SOOO great to be back here in Bangkok. I think I was too eager to leave this city when I first arrived here 10 weeks ago, that I didn't really appreciate it for all of its unique wonders. The Koh Sahn Road is the center of backpacker world in Southeast Asia. Quite honestly, I don't think there is anywhere else like it in the world. It's crazy - the street is flooded with dredlocks, Europop music, streetside bars, fried cricket vendors (which I DID try - yummy!!!!), "same same but different" t-shirt stalls, cheap neon hotel signs, and an energy that probably is unmatched anywhere else. I love it - it's definitely a surreal southeast Asian experience, especially after coming from lovely Laos, but it's a great way to end my time here.

So - my first night here Leona, Tom and I headed to a GREAT blues/jazz bar away from backpacker world, mixed with both Thai and Westerners, including the band (older western dude was an amazing singer, and the brilliant electric guitarist, bass guitarist, and drummer were all Thai. Even the crowd was completely mixed - great scene. I was pretty wiped out from my day of travels, so I didn't stay out too late. The next day (yesterday), the three of us headed down Bangkok's river to catch the Sky Train over to MBK, the huge mall in downtown Bangkok for some GREAT eats at their food court. (Aly and I discovered MBK's foodcourt in my first Bangkok experience, so I knew where to go!) That afternoon we walked around Siam Square's huge shopping district, (with a minor detour along the way), and then we headed back to our hotel to rest and get ready for our evening activity: Muay Thai Boxing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please let me give you all one bit of advice: if you ever come to Bangkok, you MUST go see Muay Thai boxing. It is so awesome; the technique and artistry with which the fighters display is truly stunning, the atmosphere of the crowd is so much fun, and we saw some pretty intense fights. Luckily, the farang (westerners) all sit along ringside, so I had a damn good view of all 9 fights throughout the night. They were even broadcasting the main event on local Thai TV, and I think the 3 of us managed to get our mugs on camera!!!! Here are some photos from the evening:


The warm-up prayer/dance ritual all boxers perform before every fight

















A moment of contemplation before the next round

















Fight!!!!!



















A massive right hook to the jaw!




Needless to say, it was an amazing experience, and such a fun night!!! The three of us headed back to the Koh Sahn Road for a last celebratory drink, being my last night in SE Asia. And that brings me to now, my final morning in Bangkok. One more blog entry to write, so until next time!!!

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!

PS - I finally figure out how to post pictures, as you can see!!!!!!!

PPS - The picture at the top is me and the champion of the main event!!!!!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Forging Rivers, The Motorbike Way (subtitle: The Loop)

HELLO FROM VIENTIANE, LAOS!!! Well, I can officially (or maybe unofficially) say that I have successfully completed The Loop around southern Laos (see previous blog entry below), and it was everything I'd hoped for, nothing I could've prepared for, and something I'll never forget. Ok, let's start at the very beginning (a very good place to start!)

After waking up at 5am to grab a tuk-tuk to the bus station in Vientiene, I was pretty much thrown onto the overcrowded local bus heading south that stops in Thakek. By overcrowded, I mean there were people sitting on plastic chairs in the aisle, and any child younger than 12 had to sit on huge bags of something piled in the back of the bus. Fortunately, I had a little Lao boy next to me the whole way (never ONCE complaining about being uncomfortable!!!) who was very entertained by my iPod and digicam photos. After arriving in Thakek at noon, I caught a tuk-tuk to the Thakek Travel Lodge where adventurers begin The Loop.

---Let me take a break from the story for one minute, and acknowledge that I would never have done The Loop if it weren't for my friend Brad McCammack (aka my former American travel budy through Vietnam, part 1). Brad: After finishing the Loop, I have mucho respect for you, since you were able to do it all on your own. Kudos to you, and thanks again for encouraging me to do this!!----

Ok, so as luck would have it, just as I was checking into the Thakek Travel Lodge, a British traveler named Matt Dallow was doing the exact same thing. After a brief exchange, we decided to embark on The Loop together. I originally thought that I was going on this adventure solo, but as a backpacker, one must always go with the flow, and Matt seemed like an easy going person to be around. In retrospect, I couldn't have done it without him. That evening, Matt and I enjoyed lots of good chat & food before leaving the next morning. Earlier in the evening, an Australian couple had just returned from the loop and gave us a full report on the road conditions, so we had some pretty good recon for what laid ahead.

Basically, the loop works like this: on Day 1, you drive east from Thakek along an evolving highway (ie, the road isn't quite finished) that passes a few caves and mountains along the way. You are encouraged to stop and explore some of these caves and rivers before arriving at Mahaxay, a tiny village/town where you can have dinner and then spend the night. On day 2, you are supposed to go north along this horrible highway (70 kilometers of rocky and barely passable roads) ending in Lak Xao. On Day 3, you drive your bike west to the Kong Lor cave, spend the night, and then on Day 4, you head further west and then south back to Thakek, thus creating The Loop. Matt and I basically decided to cut out Day 2 since rainy season is now upon us and that only means that the '70 km of doom' would change from worse to worst.

In order to navigate this multi-day feat, Mr. Koo at the Thakek Travel Lodge has conveniently created a hand-drawn, not-to-scale, and incorrect map of The Loop (would one expect anything less?). Fortunately, Matt had a proper road map of Laos, detailing exact highway routes and road conditions. (This was the first of many saving graces Matt brought to this adventure).

SO - Day 1, Matt and I set off east on Route 12, and since Matt isn't gung-ho on seeing caves, we tried to find Tha Falang, a swimming river just off the highway. It took us about an hour to find the right turn off to Tha Falang; basically we drove too far east, stopped and asked for directions, then we turned around and drove too far west, stopped and asked for directions, repeated the first step, and then repeated the second step, until we narrowed down the possibilities of entry points to just one. Phew. Going down the dirt road to Tha Falang was pretty tough; it was my first exposure to real, gritty, muddy dirt bike riding. My bike skidded a bit, and I almost fell off the thing a couple of times, but luckily I kept my balance, made it through the mud, and reached the river. It's a shame the river wasn't much of anything except a cool respite from a hectic and sweaty ride. On the way back to the highway, I had gained confidence in riding through the mud, and I followed Matt, who was proving to be the more advanced biker out of the two of us, so we made it out no problem.

The rest of the morning was spent driving all the way out to Mahaxy for lunch, admiring the limestone cliffs that lined the highway. We weren't too sure we had reached Mahaxay when we actually did, since the town is a conglomerate of wooden shacks and motorbikes strewn about. BUT - we had a delicious (and rather huge) fried rice lunch in a village restaurant. After lunch, we decided that we'd rather go back to Thakek and spend the night there than risk going northward on the '70 km of doom.' BRAD - I will never know what that road is actually like, but similarly, as you will soon read, you will never know what it was like to experience what we went through on Day 3. :-)

The night back at the Thakek Travel Lodge was great, especially since I was caked in dirt head to toe from the dusty highway ride back. A good shower and a great night's sleep set us on our way for Day 2 - heading north from Thakek (taking the western portion of The Loop in reverse), then turning east at the top of the Loop toward Kung Lor cave. I must say that the 50 km stretch after turning east at the top of the loop was the best motorbike driving I've done yet. Traveling through the mountains, you wind up and down through the rocks and trees, and there are some lookout points offering great views of the surrounding national park. I became quite adept at the whole gear-shifting thing after that stretch. (2nd gear rocks for those steep hills!) Finally, we reached the turnoff to Kung Lor Cave. Kudos to Brad (again) for informing me about the paved road here. After about 35 km of driving on paved road, then dirt road, we reached a river. As this wasn't on either the hand-drawn map or the legit map, we were a bit confused. We still hadn't reached the guest house, so we knew that the road should still keep going. A construction crew was at the beginning stages of building a bridge across the river, and there was no bypass road to get around. Apparently the rain from the previous night had changed the river from a passable stream to its current impassable state. SO, Matt and I left the bikes on the riverbank, crossed the river by foot (the water only went up to our knees) walked the 2km down the dirt road that cuts through a huge plain of rice paddies, and finally made it to our guest house: Sala Hin Boun, $16 per night, and pretty pricey food & drink. But hey, being the only game in town, there wasn't much room for negotiation.

After a fairly decent dinner, we headed to bed after a long and tedious day. Sometime during the night, the rain started again...and it rained....hard....all night. We were scheduled to depart for the Kong Lor Cave at 7am, so at 6:30am, the rain was just starting to dwindle. By 8am, the rain had stopped and we decided to risk venturing down the river to the cave. So, we boarded a wooden longboat (very simple wooden canoe-like boat with a motor attached to it) and headed down the river for about an hour until we got to the cave. The greatest part about that boat ride was that we passed a bunch of villages with all of the women villagers standing in the river performing their daily "fishing" duties. They use a huge square-shaped net, and each of the four corners of the net is held up by bamboo poles, converving into one pole which the women hold. They basically lower the net to the bottom of the lake, and then raise it up quickly in order to catch whatever fish happens to be swimming over the net at that time. It seemed like such a primitive way to collect fish; more often than not, each time they raised their fishing nets, they were empty. Noticeably absent were the men from each of these villages. It is universal that throughout my travels around each of the 4 Southeast Asian countries, the women are the ones who perform all of the backbreaking work: farming, fishing, cooking, cleaning, while the men are nowhere in sight - most likely asleep in their houses. While this phenomenon is extremely shocking and unjustifiable (yet deeply ingrained and most likely impossible to change), the women and children along the river had only the biggest smiles and warm greetings for us as we passed by. Their life exists only as they know it, not how a Westerner may perceive it.

So after an hour-long boat ride, we arrived at a nearby village where we had to change boats and boat crew to head to the cave. This took about an hour, because our first driver had to wake up our new driver to get the boat ready for us (see previous paragraph). Finally we were on our way. All in all, the Kong Lor Cave experience is a fairly tourist-ready attraction; it's just that in Laos, everything takes a little bit longer. :-) The mouth of the cave sits at the bottom of a huge rocky cliff; the rapids were too rough to drive directly into the cave, so we had to get out of our boat, walk around the rapids, and then get into another boat waiting for us inside. Finally we were on our way. Kong Lor Cave was unlike anything I had ever seen before. It's absolutely massive; our boat followed the river into the darkest depths and into huge caverns. Fortunately our 2 boat crew members had flashlights to guide the way. It kinda felt like a Disneyland ride, but a lot creepier. I have to admit, I was a bit scared the entire time we were in the cave...it was completely dark, and the flashlights were racing back and forth as if they were searching for a looming predator around each turn. We stopped and checked out some pretty amazing stalagtites and stalagmites: gigantic structures, and hollow inside which made for some interesting bongo-playing sessions inside the cave. After that, we got back on the boat, headed back out, ate our packed lunches, and then back to the guest house.

OK - here's where the story gets good: the ride home. Once we got back to our guest house, Matt and I decided to journey back to Thakek so we could catch a night bus back to Vientiene, thus saving a night at the guesthouse. SO, after leaving the guesthouse, about 50 meters away was a brand-new river, formed from last night's rainstorm. Completely impassable, we had to walk back to the guest house for them to show us the way around. Ok, river #1: done. We had to walk through a huge rice paddy in order to make it back to the road, and we finally made it back to the original river over which our bikes were happily waiting for us. The bridge construction crew floated us over the river (which was now completely impassable by foot as the water had risen by a few feet) on their longboat, and we were finally back on our bikes, ready to hit the road. River #2: done. After about 5 minutes of carefree dirtroad driving, our smiles quickly faded as we came to an unexpected break in the road in the form of another river. The rainstorm from the previous night had completely eroded through this bypass road (there was a new concrete bridge also going in here, albeit slowly). There was absolutely no way over this schism; the riverbanks were too steep to drive down & up, and we had no idea of any other detour. When we did drive up to the riverbank, a group of about 10 Lao people were in the process of hauling their tractor down and up the riverbank. When they saw us looking blankly into the river, one of them shouted "Ok, now we move your motorbikes over." I was completely shocked. They lowered a wooden plank across the water and, one at a time, they literally guided our motorbikes down the steep riverbank, through the river across the plank, and then lifted it up the steep riverbank, safely seated on the other side. My love for Lao people was only further solidified here. I had heard how nice Lao people are, but being in the tourist centers of Luang Prabang, Vang Vieng, and Vientiene, it was hard to discern genuine kindness for ulterior financial motives. This was a prime example of kind hearted generosity, bravery, and 'doing the right thing for another.' I was completely shocked; in fact, I still find it hard to believe that we got our bikes over that river. I have no idea what we would have done if it wasn't for them. Matt and I helped them move their tractors over the river after they finished with our bikes, but I'm sure they expected absolutely no form of compensation. It was the purest form of kindness, community, and humanity I had experienced. So simple: helping another out. River #3: done.

Finally we could get back on the dirt road (which was a bit more slippery than our initial venture in), and made it back to the main highway to head west and then south back to Thakek. The ride back through the mountains was probably the best live video game experience I'd ever had: quick turns, changing gears, avoiding oncoming cars, revving the engine. It was like Cruisin' USA, Ridge Racer, F-Zero, and RC Pro AM all rolled into 1. Fantastic. I'm a pretty damn good motorbike driver now. :-) I'm sure my mom is thrilled to read this. After a lunch break, we realized that we probably won't make it back to Thakek before dark, and so we cruised south down the highway as the sun was setting and turning into night. For about 30 minutes, we were driving in pitch black when Matt's bike slowed to a halt. Matt: "Big problem, I'm out of petrol" (gas) We were on a dark road with no form of civilization in sight...what do we do? This is where Matt proved himself yet again as my saving grace on The Loop. For about 5 km, he rode my bike and pushed his bike (with me on it), which was set in neutral. As if we didn't have enough challenges today, this was one last test of our will to finish The Loop. Fortunately, Matt got pretty good at steadying his foot on the back of the other bike, and I was pretty skilled at keeping it on the straight and narrow. Finally we reached a home that sold gas and we were back on our way toward Thakek. Victory!!! At the Thakek Travel Lodge, we showed them my pictures of the motorbike/river crossing fiasco, and they were pretty shocked to see what we had to do. I hope that future Loopers know in advance NOT to drive down to Kong Lor Cave. We made it home, showered, and then headed to the bus station to get back to Vientiene. Sadly, the VIP (aka non-local bus for westerners) was full, and so we had to endure a very crowded, hot, karaoke music-filled uncomfortable bus ride for 6 hours. Once we got to Vientiene, we headed straight for a guest house and slept for the next 5 hours. That day, Matt and I visited the main stupa in town (Buddhist holy sight), which is actually on the cover of the Laos Lonely Planet guide, in case anyone passes a bookstore. We enjoyed our last night in Laos together with a great dinner and my last night of Beer Lao before calling it a night.

Meeting Matt Dallow - I must say, for having the preconceived notion that I was going to do The Loop on my own, it couldn't have worked out any differently. Matt and I became fast friends; I guess that's what happens when you do something together like The Loop. Great guy - we bonded over our love for Nintendo video games, British music, and, well, all other things British! :-) Safe travels Matt! Enjoy China!!! Stay in touch.

And that brings me to now - (I started this blog entry in Vientiene, but I'm now sitting in an internet cafe near the Koh Sahn Road in Bangkok) I left Vientiene yesterday, had a great flight to Bangkok, met up with my British friends Leona and Tom from Vang Vieng (see the previous blog entry), and now it's the morning of June 16th, and my last full day in Southeast Asia.

Thank you all for reading this entire blog entry!!!!

The Loop was amazing; getting through it when I thought we couldn't proved yet again that being a traveler is the most rewarding experience. I'll save my closing SE Asia remarks for the next blog entry. Until then, I miss you all, and please be in touch!!!

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


(This is Zack and me after in the middle of a rainstorm in Luang Prabang!!)

Saturday, June 9, 2007

The One Where Everybody's Watching "Friends"

HELLO FROM Vang Vieng, Laos!!! What a crazy little place this is. I must say that, of all the towns and cities I've been to in Southeast Asia, Vang Vieng is one of the weirdest backpacker stops I've ever been to. Zack and I arrived 3 days ago, after a really great and relaxing time in Luang Prabang, and following a gorgeous 6-hour bus ride through the mountains. The views were quite stunning as we zig-zagged around the twisty roads. We got dropped off at the bus station in "town" (I'm using that word very loosely here) and eventually found a nice guest house in the center of town. Basically, Vang Vieng exists solely to serve the western backpackers that flow through it. It's pretty much one big party - everyone goes tubing during the day (which is ridiculous, but I'll explain that in a minute), then watching "Friends" on TVs in every bar in town (I know, you're thinking 'huh?'), and then it's a huge drink fest at the bars at night, and then there are late-night bars for when the curfew closes the main bars. It's all too much. And everyone here looks like they can be on MTV's Spring Break 2007: Laos Edition.

Ok, let me go back a bit: Vang Vieng looks like a scene out of an old Western movie - one main street (that kicks up dust with each passing car), and bars, restaurants, and internet cafes that line up and down each side. There is no special design to the street itself, or to the architecture which was used to create the buildings, so it feels like the town was built hastily to serve the rising Lonely Planet-induced rush to be the next backpacker's circuit hot spot. Each restaurant is a couch potato's dream: the tables are all situated in theater-style benches with pillows strewn about, so that people can recline while watching the TVs in front of them. Every restaurant shows 'Friends' episodes back-to-back.....to-back.....to-back. Quite strange. I saw the one where Ross flies to London to win back Emily, the one where Rachel pretends to smoke so that she can get closer to the boss. Actually, did you know that each "Friends" episode is actually entitled "The One Where...." or "The One With...." (note: blog title reference!!!)

A river flows through the town that is catered toward one activity only: tubing. I know, it sounds a bit strange, but trust me, tubing is the biggest thing in Vang Vieng. On our first day in town, after realizing that we were a bit freaked out by all of the lazy zombie-esque spring breakers drooling over the scattered TVs, we hopped on a motorbike and drove around town. Vang Vieng is surrounded by mountains on all sides, very reminiscent of the jagged rock mountains of Halong Bay. The scenery is quite stunning, and on our first evening here, Zack and I rode along a country rode outside of town and enjoyed a stunning sunset behind the rocky hills. The greatest escape - I recommend it to any/all in need of a break from reality. That night we met a really great British couple - Leona and Tom. I'm actually going to see them again in Bangkok before I fly out to India. We bonded over our shared sentiment for Vang Vieng's bizarre party scene is.

On day 2, Zack and I went tubing. Here's how it works: you rent the tube from the vendor in town (apparently there's a cartel of tube suppliers, rotating each day...how organized!!) and then they drive you a few kilometers up the street where you enter the river. We started with about 10 other kids who arrived at the same time. After you float for about 20 meters or so, you come up to the first bar. Tubing protocol states thus: "stop at each bar." So, we behaved the codes of ethics and got out, climbed up to the wooden platform, and enjoyed our first Beer Lao and Lao Lao (rice alcohol) of the day. Workers are set up alongside each bar in case you float too far away or do not have the manpower to swim in -- they will gladly toss you a bamboo pole to reel you in. Not only do the bars provide a well-needed refreshment in the form of alcohol, each bar has its own swing/jump/zip line extravaganza set up for you to enjoy. Completely insane, exhilarating, and hysterical, the day of tubing was unlike anything other. One of the last bars had the largest swing jump I've ever been on. Basically you stand on the edge of a platform about 40 feet in the air, grab on to the cord (almost like a trapeze artist would do), hold on tight for the rope to swing down, then back up on the other side, and then you let go when you've reached the apex of the rope's line of trajectory...and then gravity kicks in. Lots of fun. Needless to say, there are many bars/jumps along the river, so the day was quite long and exhausting. After the last bar, we floated down the river with the mountains and sunset overlooking us. It was a perfectly relaxing way to end a completely party-filled day.

The next day, Zack and I had our fill of Spring Break Vang Vieng and its tubing maniacs, so we rented motorbikes for the day and drove north for about an hour. We stopped at a remote village (village = 3 houses in a row on the side of a road surrounded by, well, nothing). The kids slowly came out of the house and alternated between acting petrified and amazed by these 2 strange white boys. I showed one of them a digital photo of himself - he looked at me like I'd come from outer space. There is no reason for anyone to stop there, so I have a feeling we were some of the first westerners these kids have seen.

In the afternoon, after a nice lunch break at the Organic Farm Cafe outside of town, Zack and I stopped back at the guest house and were getting ready to begin part 2 of our touring journey when we met an American guy named Austin who was also renting a motorbike and wanted to join our cool caravan. He just graduated from NYU, originally from Florida - solid guy. So, off we went to the caves outside of town, down a dirt road through the countryside until we finally made it all the way to the foot of the mountains. Both Zack and I had flipflops on (forehshadowing: bad idea) and in order to enter the caves one must hike up about 100 meters, which was pretty tough, even with sturdy hiking boots on. We did make it into the cave, which is pretty huge, and a great sight to see. Unfortunately, Zack slipped and hurt his hand, so he stayed behind as Austin and I ventured further down into the cave. Luckily, I had flashlights, so we ventured pretty deep into these gigantic rooms, turning around only when we realized that our memory of the way back was fading fast.

From the caves, the three of us rode south from town (the only direction we had yet to explore), and came across a soccer field with huge game of footie underway. We walked behind the match and sat along the riverbank to enjoy another quite perfect sunset behind the mountains, and in front of the river. It seems I can't escape a day without enjoying nature's way of putting it to rest.

That night, the 3 of us enjoyed a great FALAFEL dinner (I know, falafel in Laos, but hey, Israelis do love to travel!), and then we hit the bar scene for one last hurrah. After the bars in town close at 11:30pm, everyone heads to the island next to town (over the river) for the late-night bars, which stretch until the wee hours of the morning. Remember the scene in "Dazed and Confused" where they're all out in the woods drinking beer, sitting in front of campfires, etc - there you go. Same same, but....same. Since Zack, Austin, and I had our fill of the college party scene by then, we called it a night. The next morning, Zack and I were SO ready to leave Vang Vieng - it's great to see, but once you experience it, there's no need to stay. We had a nice quick (3-hour) bus ride to Vientiane, Laos' capital city. (And I use the word 'city' loosely). It's quite a picturesque place: situated along the river, much busier than your average Laotian town, and there's building going on everywhere. There is a main French-inspired (or colonially-installed) roadway that leads to a big archway outside of the town center, and near the waterfront are tons of bars, restaurants. It was a nice escape from Vang Vieng, and so Zack and I enjoyed a great last meal together, before I have to wake up at 5 AM tomorrow to catch the bus down to Thakek to begin the ultimate motorbike experience that will henceforth be known as 'The Loop'.

Saying goodbye to Zack - As my longest travel companion in southeast Asia (3 1/2 weeks), I had an incredible time traveling with Zack. He is such a good friend, and we've shared some pretty amazing experienecs together. But, the show must go on, and so I continue alone, heading south in this amazing country. Zack - best of luck getting set up in MI, and enjoy the rest of your summer!!!!

Lots of love always!!!!!

Tuesday, June 5, 2007

Tour de Laos (subtitle: Death By Bicycle)

HELLO FROM LUANG PRABANG, LAOS!!!!!! Being in Laos is like enjoying one deep, long, stress-relieving exhale. Zack and I arrived here 2 days ago - the flight from Hanoi was really easy and great...the views of the mountains when we were descending into Luang Prabang were absolutely stunning. This country is going to be gorgeous.

Luang Prabang is a very small town - there's one main street with a bunch of nice restaurants, shops, travel agencies, and internet cafes. The first noticeable difference between Laos and Vietnam is that you don't here any honking on the streets of Luang Prabang. It's so quiet!!! Which, of course, is such a welcomed change from the craziness of Hanoi and all of the hecklers trying to sell you stuff. Anyway, if you want to picture what Luang Prabang looks like, imagine a main street with a few cars and bikes riding up and down, the buildings on either side are only two stories high, with a balcony on the second story of most buildings. It's a pretty simple place. A block away from the main street is the Mekong River, and longboats shuttle up and down the river carting goods, families, and tourists to and from various locations.

So, Zack and I arrived 2 days ago, and after we found a guesthouse, we enjoyed a lovely dinner on the main street (Lao food is pretty similar to other SE Asian cuisines - noodles, coconut curries, veggies, rice, etc). That night we headed to the only late night bar in town - Hive, which is uber-chic for being in such a foreign place. New York City should be so lucky to have a bar like this! Day 2: Zack and I decided to explore the town and its many Wats (temples). We first checked out the Royal Palace Museum, which is the former home of the Lao Royal family before the were sent into exile in 1975, and the royal government was dissolved into what is now the Lao People's Democratic Republic (communist government). The palace was beautiful - the main reception room for the king was painted a stunning red and decorated with Japanese colored glass mosaic tiles from floor to ceiling, depicting various aspects of Lao life. The pillars in the room were covered with gold leafing, so it made the room look quite spectacular.

After the palace, Zack and I decided to rent bicycles (the pedal kind, not the motor kind), and ride up the main street to check out the various Wats in town. From there we turned left at the end of the main road and rode all the way down along the Mekong river to the edge of town. That's when Zack had the idea for us to bike all the way to Kuang Si, the famous waterfall outside of town, 32 kilometers away. Since our entire bike ride for the morning had thus far been on flat road, I subscribed to the idea like a computer buff (nerd) subscribes to Wired Magazine. It was all easy goings until we got about 7 km outside of the center of Luang Prabang and past the surrounding villages that extend along the main road. When we passed the "25 km to Kuang Si Waterfalls" sign, the terrain acquired a bit more personality, and the road started to go up through the mountains. Since my previous bicycle experience encompasses riding my bike around Dogwood Lane (once) before calling it an evening - and that hobby ended about 15 years ago - my bicycle legs were far from ready to undergo what was to come, needless to say. :-) I must give soooooo much credit to Zack. He had been cycling a bit back in San Fran before he came out here, and plus I think he's in better shape than I overall, so he had hardly any problems with the bike ride. Zack was the ultimate moral supporter in this adventure. When I wanted to turn around (ie, right when I realized that it wasn't going to be flat roads), Zack pressed me to carry on. :-) So, carried on we did, and I struggled every bit of the way. When we were about 5 km to go, I thought I was going to die. I had about 4 bottles of water in a row, but I heard my body was screaming at me "WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING TO ME!!!!" I felt weak, cold (even though it was about 40 degrees Celcius and the sun was beating down on my back), and my legs felt like JELL-O. It didn't help that every now and then a van of tourists would drive past us and look at us like we residents of the local insane asylum. BUT - thanks to Zack's motivation, we made it to the waterfalls...me, barely. Our first item on the agenda once we got there - arranging a van ride back!!! Luckily, it was easy to do, and we could rest assured that we would not be biking back, and my life would be spared. :-) (Melodramatic, much???)

The waterfalls were beautiful - we climbed up to a lookout point at the top of the falls, and then we hiked back down to the base of the waterfall where cold water swimming pools awaited us. It felt great. Of course, just after we got out of the pools, a huge thunderstorm soaked us to the bone, and we had gone from scorching hot to freezing cold in a matter of minutes. After we arrived back in town, we celebrated our successful day with a nice dinner and some cold Beer Lao. Let me please remind everyone who does not know: Beer Lao is the best beer in Southeast Asia. If, by chance, you come across Beer Lao in a liquor store in NYC, or elsewhere around the world, please pick some up! (bottles, not cans, of course). You won't be disappointed.

This morning Zack and I went on a longboat ride down the Mekong to check out some nearby caves. After the experience of seeing the caves at Halong Bay last week, everything else pales in comparison unfortunately. But, it was a nice ride along the river. On the way back, however, our boat's engine died, and I thought we were going to be swimming back to Luang Prabang. Luckily, the driver revived the engine by some employing sort of Lao engine water-torture technique, and the little engine that could got us back safely. :-)

And that brings us to now - sitting in an air-conditioned internet cafe escaping the scorching heat. Tomorrow Zack and I get on a bus to Vang Vien, where we'll enjoy the tubing experience that everyone in Southeast Asia can't stop talking about (I'm a bit sick of hearing about it and I'm ready to get it over with already!!!) Anyway, I'm doing great here - Zack and I are having a blast. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that next to the uber-chic Hive bar, there's an uber-hipster tea lounge/bookstore next door call L'Etranger. So, Zack and I have spent every evening at the tea shop enjoying some quality Twinings and conversation, before heading over to Hive. Zack and I only have about 4 more days together!! So sad...but, the show must go on!!!

I hope everyone is doing great back in the Western world. It must be getting pretty hot and humid in NYC, DC, and elsewhere. I hope everyone is now using my infamous "leave your entire work wardrobe at work so you don't have to sweat through all of your clothes by 8:59am" technique. It's the only way to commute in NYC or DC, in my opinion.

Hope to hear from everyone very soon! Please drop me a quick line when you guys can.

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, June 2, 2007

Baby Love, My Baby Love (Welcome Baby Hart!!)

HELLO AGAIN! Before I leave Vietnam, I just wanted to send a big congratulations to my friends Kerry and Gordon in Newcastle, England. Kerry just gave birth to Martha Alice Hart, born on June 2nd, weighing 7Lb and 6oz. Mother and child are doing great - thanks for the update Gordon!!! I can't wait to see you both and meet Martha in a few months!!!

Lots of love always!!!!!!!!

Friday, June 1, 2007

Sapa Don't Preach (I'm In Mud Knee-Deep)

HELLO AGAIN from Hanoi, Vietnam!!!! I just got back from the trip to Sapa this morning, via overnight train, and had an amazing time up there. Sapa is a small town up in the hills of northern Vietnam, surrounded by gorgeous mountains covered with rice paddies - the views were pretty spectacular. Our room at the guest house opened up onto a balcony overlooking the scenery all around us - it couldn't have been better. Since it was higher elevation, the temperature was a bit cooler and the clouds & fog seeped over the mountains and into the town sporadically, adding to the experience. On our first day, Zack and I went on an afternoon hike down the hill to a waterfall. The interesting thing about Sapa is that there are numerous hill tribe villages that populate the region; many live in Sapa as well as the surrounding region. So, everywhere you look there are local village people in their traditional dress (head to toe in dark colors, with intricate designs embroidered everywhere). The funny thing is, they have lots of goods to sell to you (whether you want to buy anything or not), and are more than prepared to walk the entire length of a 2-day hike through the mountains alongside you in case --- at any given moment -- you feel the urge to buy one of their handmade goods. So, we had about 10 tourists, 2 guides, and about 35 hilltribe people as part of our huge posse. It was quite a scene trekking through the mountains. Since they're so accustomed to hiking the same trails day in and day out, they've gotten to be quite skilled at navigating the more treacherous parts, namely the steep muddy hills. By lunchtime, I was more than happy to buy bracelets and bags from the ladies who so bravely held my hand down the hill and prevented me from falling. :-)

We slept in a village - there were 8 of us in our group, a Dutch couple (with whom I will meet up again this September), a girl from California, a Kiwi girl, and a couple from Singapore (plus Zack and me). Luckily, I had my iPod speakers (THANK YOU KIM!) So it made for a really fun night of music, cards, singing, and lots and lots of rice alcohol. Yummy. For those of you who know me too well, I'm not the biggest fan of taking shots...but rice alcohol goes down nice and smooth. We all had lots of fun, and since we were in the middle of the mountains, we got to bed pretty early for a good night's sleep. The next morning a thunderstorm greeted us with pouring rain, which luckily stopped in time for us to begin our trek for the day. Basically, hiking through the mountains of Sapa is an adventure in navigating up and down through the rice paddies. If you've never seen rice paddies, they're about as scenic as you can get. Picture a mountain cut into stairs; each stair holds water that eventually growns tall green stalks (grass) that contains the rice. When the paddies are filled with water, their metallic-like quality makes them a perfect mirror for the surrounding landscape. And when the paddies are filled with grass, the lush green color is the perfect compliment to the scene. All in all, a muddy, slippery, sliding adventure - I think we were all covered head to toe in mud. Excellent. :-)

Last night we caught the night train back to Hanoi and arrived early this morning (4:30 am). Zack and I lugged our bags back into the old quarter and found a guest house to get a few more hours of sleep before we attacked the day. Today was all about relaxing and getting some last minute things in before we leave Vietnam tomorrow: massages, shopping, internet, etc. All very essential. Especially the massage. hahaha. Tonight we're going to check out the water puppet show, which is unique to Hanoi, so we'll get a bit of culture in before we leave.

SO - as this is the last of my 29 days in Vietnam, I think it's time we embark on our second Top 10 of this trip:

Top 10 Best Things About Traveling Through Vietnam

10. Pho Bo (rice noodle soup with beef) [this was a close one between Pho Bo, Vietnamese spring rolls and Vietnamese pancakes]
9. Seeing the same travelers as you go from city to city on the open tour buses (and subsequently becoming good friends with them!)
8. Crossing the street in HCMC and Hanoi (don't look, just GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
7. Dam Sen Amusement Park in HCMC (totally random, completely amazing - especially the ice sculpture house)
6. "Mot Hai Ba --- YOOOOOO!!!!!!!!" (The Vietnamese way of saying "1, 2, 3, CHEERS!!!" -- and then you drink your shot of rice alcohol)
5. Walking the streets of Hoi An along the river at sunset. (It felt like being back in time 100 years!)
4. Sunset at Halong Bay (stunning, breathtaking, 'nuff said)
3. Learning a country's history and seeing the impact of an American war from the other point of view.
2. Passing children on the street from your motorbike and screaming "HELLO" to them after they wave and smile and eagerly say "HELLO" back (also: playing with the kids when you're on a break from riding your bike)
1. Easy Riders tours (Dinh and Hung as the best tour guides, specifically)

So that's it - I think I've said all I can say about how much I've loved being in Vietnam, and how fortunate I've been to spend 4 weeks here. Next stop is Laos. Tomorrow Zack and I fly to Luang Prabang. I don't really know what to expect, except that Laos is supposed to be COMPLETELY different from Vietnam. I have about 2 weeks or so in Laos. Bring it on.

Speak to you again soon!!!!!!
Lots of love always!!!!!!!!

PS - Zack and I got a kick out of this blog title, for any old-school Madonna fans out there. I hope it makes you laugh!!!!!